Sometimes the red flag isn't hidden. Sometimes we see it. We feel it. Sometimes inside us says, Pay attention. But we want to believe the words. We want to believe the apology. We want to believe that this time will be different. So we explain away what we already know. This isn't about attacking men, embarrassing someone, or telling women how to live their lives. It is about learning to recognize behavior that can slowly cause us to question ourselves. The lies. The games. T